A Friendly Guide to Using Condoms
Let’s talk about condoms. Whether you’re gearing up for your first time or you’ve been using them for years, knowing how to use condoms properly is a skill worth mastering. After all, they’re one of the easiest and most effective ways to protect against both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Plus, with so many options out there, they can even make things more fun. In this guide, we’ll break everything down step-by-step, so you can feel confident, safe, and ready to go.
Head on over to our Condoms guide to learn more about these rubber heroes without the capes.
Why bother with condoms?
First things first, why should we use condoms? Well, when used correctly, condoms are between 98% and 99% effective at preventing pregnancy.
They also significantly reduce the risk of STIs, including HIV. So, they're pretty much superheroes in the world of sexual health.
Choosing the right condom
Not all condoms are created equal. They come in various materials, sizes, and even flavours. Here's a quick rundown to help you find the best one for your needs:
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Materials: Most condoms are made from latex, which is stretchy, durable, and widely available. However, if you have a latex allergy, don’t worry, there are great alternatives available. These materials are just as effective and comfortable.
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Size: A properly fitting condom is essential for both safety and comfort. If a condom is too tight, it may break during use. If it’s too loose, it might slip off. At Skins, we offer a wide range of sizes to suit everybody. Take some time to experiment and find the size that fits you best.
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Textures and Flavours: Whether you want to spice things up or cater to oral activities, textured and flavoured condoms can add some excitement. Options like ribbed & dotted condoms can enhance sensation for both partners, while flavoured varieties make oral sex more enjoyable. They’re a great way to add variety to your routine.
Storing Your Condoms
To make sure your condoms stay in perfect condition, proper storage is key. Here’s how to keep them safe and effective:
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Cool and Dry: Condoms are sensitive to heat and moisture, so storing them in a cool, dry place is essential. A bedside drawer is an ideal spot. Avoid keeping them in your wallet or car glove compartment for extended periods, as the heat and friction can weaken the material.
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Check Expiry Dates: Like many products, condoms have a shelf life. Using a condom past its expiry date increases the likelihood of it breaking. Before using one, check the packaging for the expiry date to ensure it’s still safe to use.
Step-by-step guide to condom use
Ready to get down to business? Here’s a detailed guide on how to use an external (male) condom:
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Open Carefully: When opening a condom packet, be gentle to avoid damaging the condom inside. Use your fingers to tear the foil and don’t use teeth, scissors, or any sharp objects, as these can accidentally tear the condom.
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Pinch the Tip: Before rolling the condom on, pinch the tip to squeeze out any trapped air. This leaves a small space to collect semen and reduces the risk of the condom breaking during use.
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Roll It On: Place the condom on the tip of the erect penis with the rolled edge facing outwards. Hold the tip as you roll it down the length of the shaft to the base. Make sure it fits snugly and there are no air bubbles or wrinkles.
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After the Deed: Once finished, hold the base of the condom firmly while withdrawing the penis to prevent it from slipping off or spilling. It’s important to do this while the penis is still erect.
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Dispose Properly: Tie a knot in the open end of the condom to prevent any spillage, wrap it in tissue, and throw it in the bin. Never flush condoms down the toilet, as they can clog plumbing and harm the environment.
Common mistakes to avoid
Even with the best intentions, mistakes can happen. Avoid these common condom mishaps:
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Double Bagging: Using two condoms at once might seem like extra protection, but it’s actually counterproductive. The friction between the two condoms can cause them to tear. Stick to using just one at a time.
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Late Application: Putting on a condom after intercourse has already begun means it’s not doing its job fully. Condoms should be applied before any genital contact to ensure proper protection.
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Reusing Condoms: Condoms are designed for single use only. Always use a fresh one for each act of intercourse to guarantee safety and effectiveness.
Involve lubrication
Adding lube can make everything feel more comfortable and help prevent the condom from breaking. Here’s what to know:
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Water-Based or Silicone-Based: These types of lubricants are safe to use with all condoms, including latex. They reduce friction, making intercourse smoother and more pleasurable. Apply a small amount inside the tip before rolling the condom on and add more to the outside once it’s in place.
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Avoid Oil-Based Lubes: Oil-based products like baby oil, coconut oil, or petroleum jelly can weaken latex condoms, causing them to break. Stick to water-based or silicone-based lubes to stay on the safe side.
A final few tips
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Practice Makes Perfect: If you’re new to condoms, take some time to practice putting them on. This can help you feel more comfortable and confident when the moment comes.
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Communicate: Having an open conversation with your partner about using condoms is essential. It ensures you’re both on the same page and can help ease any potential awkwardness.
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Stay Informed: Keep yourself educated on sexual health topics and don’t hesitate to reach out to healthcare professionals if you have any questions or concerns.
Remember, using condoms is a responsible and empowering choice that shows respect for both your health and your partner’s. So, keep a stash handy, use them correctly, and enjoy safer, more confident sexual experiences.
